Why we should care about the sale of spray paint

Last week Maya and I were at Michael’s craft supply store in Manhattan, and standing at the checkout we saw a display of spray paint with a sign taped over it:

Turns out that this law was one of the many put in place by Mayor Bloomberg during his three terms, and I had missed it.  (Not difficult to do considering the number of new laws he put into place in his 12 years, but still…)

I posted the photo on FB with the caption:  ”So let’s get this straight: You can drive at age 16, vote and serve in the military at 18 but you have to be 21 or over to buy SPRAY PAINT?? Seriously, people – get a grip.”

A few friends agreed with me, but then others told me that it wasn’t ridiculous, as most of the people under 21 who would buy spray paint are probably getting high or vandalizing with it.   I pointed out that such a law does nothing to address the problem, and simply makes criminals of those who get their hands on it, simultaneously punishing those who want to use it for its intended purpose.

The usual arguments ensued (safety being chief among them), and my concerns were summarily dismissed.   After all, how many people does this law really affect?  Why should we care?

Here is why we should care.

When I studied in Berlin in 1986, three years before the fall of the Berlin Wall, our group made several sanctioned trips into East Berlin.  Each time we were the guests, either of a government agency or official, or members of the Freie Deutsche Jugend (the “Free German Youth”).

At some point during each visit, our hosts would tell us how much safer the German Democratic Republic was than the United States.  They railed against the graffiti that covered the western side of the Wall, rightly pointing out that once someone touched the wall they had entered the GDR, since the Wall was built 2 or 3 feet back from the actual border.   They said that such vandalism was a sign of the corruption and depravity of the West – a sign of lack of respect for authority.  The Eastern side of the Wall was of course untouched – because if you got that close to it you would be shot – , but so were all walls and buildings in East Berlin.     They asked us about our slums and our unemployed, about our rampant drug problems and inner city crime.  And how could we respond?  They were right.  East Germany had no graffiti, no vandalism, no drug problems, no unemployment and virtually no theft or other crime.

And no freedom either, despite the name of their youth organization.  But if we dared to point that out, we were told that the government’s job was to keep its people safe (even from themselves), and that any restrictions – anything we saw as a lack of freedom – was all done in the name of the peoples safety.
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Which is why all these years later, a sign in Michaels and subsequent comments in support of the spray paint law brought those talks with East German party members and government officials back to the forefront in my mind.

Especially when I’m told such laws are needed to keep kids “safe”.   (As it turns out, the spray paint law has  nothing to do with kids getting high and everything to do with graffiti and vandalism, although the attorneys arguing in favor of its implementation did put the safety spin on it by saying that such a law would keep neighborhoods from being “terrorized” by these vandals.)

Think I’m overreacting?  That one law on the sale of spray paint does not a fascist regime make?

Perhaps, but the ever more prevalent idea that our government’s job is to regulate everything in order to keep us safe?  That scares me, because one law becomes two becomes twenty becomes thousands and pretty soon it’s not just products that are regulated, but speech both written and spoken, and where we can gather or travel and what church we do or do not attend and perhaps who you associate with and what you study, etc.

Most people I know are consumed with things like confronting NSA spying or obtaining equal rights for gay couples.  And both of those things are important, don’t get me wrong.   But as far as maintaining our overall freedom we are missing the proverbial forest for the trees.   We are so intent on the big things that we are missing all the ways in which we are willfully handing over our freedom, one small piece at a time, all in the name of safety.    We are giving up basic things that dissidents in the East sometimes died trying to protect or regain.

You see freedom will not disappear in a big way, all at once.   The government will not wake up tomorrow and tell everyone that freedom of speech or religion no longer applies.  If that happened, there would be massive resistance.  But small things? Like the sale of spray paint?   Those fall into place almost without notice and pretty soon my friends are telling me I’m overreacting and it’s ok – it’s about safety and anyway there are bigger problems to worry about.

Still think I’m over doing it?

Ok, let’s talk about informing on people to the police.   You see, in East Germany, if you did something “wrong”, and a helpful neighbor told the Stasi police about it, you could be hauled away for questioning or even imprisoned.   Today, in this country, a similar situation occurs almost every day.   If you read Lenore Skenazy’s blog, you know what I’m talking about.    A mother is arrested for letting her 11 and 7 year old kids walk to a pizza place.  How do you think the police knew about it?  And why should it be a punishable offense to let your kids do what even 30 years ago all kids did?   If the word “safe” just popped into your head, as in “The world is not as safe now” or “It was done to keep those kids safe”, I would say you have just proved my point.  One of my friends (an actual friend, not just a FB “friend”) was at a gas station and saw a mother leave her peacefully sleeping child in the car while she ran in to pay for her gas, and wondered if he’d done the right thing by NOT calling the police!

So how can we stop this chipping away at our freedom?  The first step is to notice it, which very few people seem to be willing to do.   Question why, stop informing on people for nothing, and realize that our freedom is in our own hands.   Let’s not give it away.

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The treasures of travel are often invisible to others

This time, there was the running joke: “Wer ist gestorben?”  (Who died?)

Or the Vine that spawned many rounds of “Oooh, you touched my tra-la-la.”   (Somehow this is much funnier and slightly less off-putting when being bantered about by kids who don’t share a common first language.)

Then there was the poor gas station attendant who unwittingly became the source of laughter so all consuming we almost had to pull the car to the side of the road in order to avoid driving off it.  (The joke is unexplainable, but included winking – or possibly an eye tic – a mistaken ethnic identity and travel fatigue.)

There was the salad dressing comment (in German) that had me in gales of laughter wiping my eyes and my (also laughing but not understanding) kids demanding to know what was so funny.

These are the hidden gems of travel.  I will of course write a couple of posts in the days to come about the obvious gems of our most recent trip- visiting Checkpoint Charlie & the Brandenburg Gate in Berlin, for example – but the things we will all remember and reference for years to come?  Definitely the smaller, more personal, often funny moments.   This is particularly true when it comes to trips we take with my friend Tina and her son Linus, who is one year older than Ben.  The language barrier was never really a barrier over the years, because kids are genius at surmounting it and ours have been creating their own unique barrier-less memories since they were toddlers.

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Funny, seemingly insignificant moments that trigger a floodgate of memories about a certain time and place.

As the commercial says, “Priceless”.

2006 in Spain

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April 2 & 3 photos of the day

Over the last two days I’ve taken around 90 photos.

I only liked two of them.  But I liked those two a lot.

The first is titled “2nd” and is the top of a ConEd manhole cover.  All I did was beef up the color a bit, but what a difference it makes!

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Welcome to April!

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March 31 photo of the day

31 days have flown by, and here we are at the end of this month of photos.

I’ve decided that from now on I won’t post every day (at least not the photos) but will do an end of the week round up, or maybe twice weekly so that it’s not so many shots at once.

Maya gave me the idea for today’s photo, and we had to go all the way to Chelsea to get it. In our neighborhood of the West 60′s and 70′s, house numbers don’t go past 325 –  and that didn’t quite cut it.
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Here’s to more fun photos in April!

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March 30 photo of the day

Today’s photo walk took me up Columbus Avenue between 66th and 81st streets.   I’ve walked this route too many times to count over the years, but today I saw things I’d never seen before, simply by making sure to look up.

Some of the best architectural detail and ornamentation is well above street level.  If you never look up, you miss it.

Today, for instance, I saw two ice cream signs I’d never noticed before.  Neither of them have anything to do, anymore,  with what is housed in the buildings on which they appear. Which made me like them even more.
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March 29 photo of the day

I can’t believe March is almost done!  Three more days and then…. I’ll have to find other things to write about.  (Actually Karen and I have decided to extend the photo project, but I haven’t decided if I’ll continue posting about it here every day – maybe I’ll do a weekly roundup instead to leave room for other topics in the interim.)

Today’s photo is made possible through the wonders of LoFi.  I have no idea if this app is popular, but I love it.   It takes our crisp digital photos and morphs them into snapshots of old, complete with accompanying frame.

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March 28 photo of the day

In New York City, certain things get photographed a lot.

The Empire State Building, the Statue of Liberty, Times Square and Grand Central Station spring to mind.

In this month of photos, I’ve tried to stay away from the obvious and overdone.

But walking down Lexington at 43rd St and looking up is a showstopper, and I couldn’t resist.

The Chrysler Building takes my breath away every time I’m near it; it’s magnificent top is its best known feature  (when someone says it “shines like the top of the Chrysler Building” we all know what they mean), but the building is stunning from top to bottom.  I wonder if architect William Van Alen grasped the magnitude of the influence his building would have; at the time of construction it was in competition with the Empire State Building, which famously surpassed the Chrysler in height a mere 11 months after the Chrysler Building was completed.

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My first job in NYC was at 733 3rd Ave., and on my way to and from work I always exited the subway through the lobby of the Chrysler Building.   It’s like stepping back in time – all art deco and polished wood – and I never tired of it.  (In fact sometimes it was the best moment of my day.)

This shot is an angle to which I don’t believe I’d ever paid much attention in the past, but there really isn’t a bad angle to the Chrysler Building.

It is a classic in every sense of the word.

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March 26 & 27 photos of the day

Yesterday it was so cold and windy that walking anywhere outside to take photos held no appeal whatsoever.

Luckily I have an amazing subject right here at home.   (Ok, I’m somewhat biased about this, I’ll admit).   I took this photo by attaching a macro filter onto my macro lens.  Because the two aren’t really meant to work together – the macro filter is for a smaller lens and I had to use tiny bits of tape to hold the two together – the shots are blurred around the edges.    It’s a great effect that I hope to experiment with more in the future.

This one is called “Window”:

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This woman caught my eye because she looked so determined to soak up some sun, no matter what the temperature.   (I also love the giant black patent leather bag she has on her lap).

Inch by inch, Spring is on its way.

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March 25 photo of the day

I probably should have saved yesterday’s firefighter photo for March 31, because how do you follow that?

Minimally, that’s how.

In this case with a photo I took at night in Union Square.   The building whose brick looks red in the reflection of the neon is actually white.   I like that darkness obscures the windows on the right side of the frame.

I like the glow of neon on brick.

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It could be any cafe late at night, in almost any town.

This one just happens to be here.

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March 24 photo of the day

When my friend Karen and I started this photo project, I knew there was one shot I had to get before the end of the month.

Karen loves firefighters.

But truthfully, who doesn’t?  And in NYC, we have the best of the best.  So I kept looking for an opportunity to catch the guys at our local firehouse when they were returning from a call and  still in their gear.

Today was the day.

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Today they were equally accommodating, posing for a photo that made Karen’s whole month, and is now her cover photo on her Facebook page.

So thanks to the guys of FDNY Engine 40/Ladder 35.   Not only for the photo, but for running in when everyone else runs out.

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