The Spirit of Christmas

The Setting:   Ben’s room yesterday evening as I was saying good-night.   Him under the covers, lights out, with me snuggled next to him.   (In case you don’t know, he’s 7.)

Ben:  Mama?

Me:  Yes?

Ben:  (Ducking his head under the covers as he speaks)  I don’t believe in Santa Claus.

Me:   You don’t?

Ben:  (Shakes his head, which is still under the covers)  No.

Me:   Why not?

Ben: (Takes the covers down a little)  Well, I just don’t think he could really deliver presents to everyone all over the world in one night.

Me:   Oh.  Did Maya talk to you about it?

Ben:  No.  (Pause)  But I think most of my friends know.

Ben’s friends are all older than he is, by at least a year.  Some are 2 and even 3 years older, so this news did not come as much of a shock.

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Ben:  (Shrugs his shoulders but turns and gives me a hug.)   I don’t know.

Me:   Of course I wouldn’t.   But Ben, do you know what is real about Santa Claus?

Ben:  No, what?

Me:   What’s real is what he represents, which is the spirit of giving and the joy of being with family at Christmas.

Ben:   Oh, ok.  (Gives me another hug.)

Me:   So can we still go and see Santa on Sunday? (at ABC Carpet – Best Santa in the World!)

Ben:  Yes!

Me:   Good, because I really enjoy it.

Ben:  Me too.

My sweet boy.   Maya believed in Santa till she was 10 but I knew that chances were Ben would figure it out much sooner.   There are people who think that you shouldn’t ‘lie’ to kids about Santa, but I wouldn’t have missed the magic in their eyes for all those years for anything.   And even though now the magic has lessened,  there is a part of it that will linger always.

About Amy

Amy Milstein was born and raised on a farm in Indiana, but after 20+ years considers herself a full-fledged New Yorker. She is married with two kids, who do not go to school but are instead life learners. This means they learn by living in the world (real life ) instead of hearing about it and simulating it in a classroom. With her family, Amy loves to travel, read, watch movies, write, sew, knit - the list is endless.
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One Response to The Spirit of Christmas

  1. Miriam AKA Grandma says:

    Awwwwwwww. Made me tear up.