Community of outsiders

I’ve written in this blog about my belief that anyone can make the decision to homeschool or unschool their kids.   It doesn’t matter how much money you make, how much schooling you had yourself, what race you are or religion you believe in, if any.   To allow your children to learn outside of school is a decision anyone can make.

That said, it takes a lot of courage to chuck decades of cultural programming about what constitutes education and to choose a different path.   In the case of life learners it is a much, much less traveled path.   So even though anyone can make the choice, those that do are a special group of people.

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I don’t mean to wax poetic about homeschooling parents.  We are all just normal people with our own unique flaws and foibles, but somewhere we all made a choice for our children that puts us on the outside.   We’re a community of outsiders.    I can’t speak for anyone else, but it’s a community I’m truly glad to be a part of.

About Amy

Amy Milstein was born and raised on a farm in Indiana, but after 20+ years considers herself a full-fledged New Yorker. She is married with two kids, who do not go to school but are instead life learners. This means they learn by living in the world (real life ) instead of hearing about it and simulating it in a classroom. With her family, Amy loves to travel, read, watch movies, write, sew, knit - the list is endless.
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